But some, too, have died and there is no way for me – or for readers who enjoyed a person's comments – to know. It has nothing to do with you, but everything to do with her/them. Saturday, 25 January 2020 at 12:28 PM. I've got to move on and not let messiness and confusion bog me down. The longest breakup was a month which was two days before my birthday (November 25th). But I knew that none of these things was true. Long story short i was dating a woman for about 2 months and it was getting very serious. Developing the coping skills necessary to obtain a sense of closure can assist us in forgiving, letting go, and moving on. Or further, knows that mom or dad or anyone else in the family has been enjoying conversations, maybe for many years, at a certain website and feels a kinship with those people.

Cause I’m not!" I saw her after the summer (September) and it was nice. I realized I had left some items at his house, so after 2 weeks I sent a message requesting them back and I thanked him for his many kindnesses to me. I am a 77 year old widow. I email her to let her know i still want this and she keeps them all. It's also hurtful, for sure. Her posts have stopped. Instead, I was left with my imagination, which, in the absence of any logical explanations, veered toward the far-fetched.

She didn't wanna b an abused woman. I know what it's like to see a long-time blogger friend disappear. I then gave him about a week of space and then contacted him to see how he was feeling and he was receptive. Sometimes people just don't respond like we want them I feel your sadness. We always had a great time. Even when a cutoff is traced to a single outrageous thing said or done, that supremely tellable violation usually caps frustrations that had been mounting over time. Things were progressing well. After the conference, we kept in touch long-distance for nearly four years, continuing in a more workaday fashion the friendship that had begun so potently.

I sent a letter of gratitude to an exercise instructor who retired in her 80s. I came up with nothing. Now we are in our 60s. Ad Choices. And yet there is a place inside me that exists apart from what she did, an alternate universe in which the lovely friendship we shared and the ugly way it ended don't cancel each other out. Many of us find it hard to say anything negative outright, so we swallow our hurt—until it chokes us. -- Mark Twain Marilyn J Bunte | Why not seek counseling to deal with your feelings of rejection? I called him at work. Rain Trueax | WOW is all I can say. Posted by: It only adds to my confusion and sadness to get these trickles of communication from you. Thank you. Annette Thomas (author) from Northeast Texas on January 25, 2017: pip: Don't give him a dime. Years of reading the thoughts of people on a variety of topics cannot help but lead us to care about them, to feel a connection. Make an informal "Class B" Will.

Why did he/she leave? More often, I questioned my own role. Then slowly after a month his life got super busy and complicated. Otherwise, you’ll be left feeling empty and betrayed again. So, my friend and I have been really close for 5 years. We laughed at the same things, felt enraged by the same world woes, held the same values. I live in New Mexico now and always share your posts on FACEBOOK and others have shared that they like your posts. It's just sickening. My in-laws said it was one of the hardest part of getting old. Last month was rocky we would argue, because again I wasn't satisfied with the communication I was getting.. maybe I was too needy? I also got a confirmation that there was a strong attraction between us and that in another place and time prior to meeting her current partner, we would have likely been sexually intimate. In our scenario silent treatment is evident but I really hope that he can just send me a message and tell me that he decided to end the relationship. It’s more difficult because you don’t know the reasons why. Ill be your man Donotfear. But I know that the content and people of this blog were a blessing in her life, so I thank you all for that. He wasn't divorced yet but they were separated so I thought its okay. He was with me almost daily, introduced me to his parents, aunts, grandma, etc. So how do you deal with the sadness and hurt? I just recently went through this. Colleen Skinner | So to me this doesn't sound like a break up but he then never replied to my text... the next day , i had time to think so I told him okay because i love and care about you I will wait.. but does this mean we are still together as a couple just won't talk as much because right now you need space, etc or is this over.. because I need to know.' Somebody needs to call him down on his behavior. Friday, 24 January 2020 at 03:34 PM. And we kept doing that, becoming the kind of friends neither of us had had since we were children. I post infrequently, but enjoy reading others comments and your info on aging.

Posted by: Gail | I haven’t been following you for anywhere near as long as some of your fans. I created a new profile and added him as a friend. But not all the time. They're going to need it! She had posted a political entry on January 9th, just a few days ago, I hope she is fine. I was with CT for two years. Should I reach out one last time and tell him I hope we can keep in touch or leave the ball in his court and let him to reconsider hopefully? Norma | I am so torn apart. And so, in a way, it remains, not as a friendship but a mystery, one that, alone and without the slightest explanation, I've had to live with. Were all of those years lies? Sometimes the decision to end a friendship wasn’t made by the friend herself, so both are victims. I'm the same age you are, Ronni, so I'm experiencing all the various declines that go with age. This girl I was seeing for 4 months in exclusive relationship cheated on me and didn’t tell me but I knew from her friends Snapchat stories she was distant in texting after I texted her the day after and kept ending the convos saying she wasn’t feeling good, then I just stopped texting her after I tried to ask her to go out to eat so I could confront her she never got back to me and we stopped talking, it’s been about 4 days since she cheated with no contact and she texted me saying hey then 5 min later says never mind sorry.She never let me know it ended but it’s over, I’m not sad just disappointed that everything we had was just a waste of time thinking we had something and she didn’t even bother to tell me we’re done. The friends who stops you from bad deeds are indeed the best friends. Kate Carlson |

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