How to deal with being the "ugly" sister? My older sister has always been like Barbie, big lips, tiny frame, big eyes, long hair.

Just think, at least people won't be staring at you every second. If she loses the weight then maybe, yes, I can see it. Perhaps exercise more, tone up, get a makeover, get counseling, or talk to your parents about it. I've accepted the fact that I'm the ugly one in almost any friend group or group I'm in. For girls who are still in school are you doing remote learning. Add Opinion.

I'm a guy and a guy's height is very important and for a girl, she just needs to be average height and don't worry about the fat because you can always get rid of it, it's seriously no biggie.

I've been working on my confidence and most of the time I'm alright with the way I look but when I see my sister, my confidence level shoots back to 0. I think the "ugly" sister is gorgeous. 1. This is a long one, I'm just rambling.

Downvoted because you are actually hot and beautiful.

But thank you. My mom was fairly attractive when she was young and so was my dad, so I don't know what happened to me.

When I was 12 I dropped 50 pounds in 3 months, no one thought it was an issue they just told me how I was finally beautiful, but I didn't feel beautiful. Never miss a thing with GirlsAskGuys notifications on your browser.

Right now, I'm seeing a therapist and other health professionals to help me recover from my eating disorders (if I didn't mention that). Lucille Ball's great-granddaughter dies at 31, Virginia health officials warn of venomous caterpillars, How tourist avoided prison for bad TripAdvisor reviews, It doesn't get more cruel than Tyrod Taylor's demotion, Scientists debunk Pence debate claim on hurricanes, Many bottled water brands contain toxic chemicals: Report, Experts blast Trump for foreign policy blunders, Video of ICE agents stopping Black jogger, '70s TV star wore 'tiniest' bikini to prove a point, Cuban shares update on Delonte West's recovery, 'This is better than a vaccine': Trump touts virus 'cure'.

Looks only last so long and if you don't have a good personality, you'll end up being the single old "Cat" lady. Hey, you really need to lose that weight, you're obese atm. Create a row of five to ten Ace of Spades and let them hover like flying carpets. I know you have an eating disorder and I have seriously no idea how it feels but one thing I can tell you is that losing fat is easy as hell. So, there's a tale for you.

But remember it's ultimately not about looks anyways.

What News source do you take from the most and what are your reasons you trust what they say more? I don't have a tiny nose with a little bump at my bridge, my eyes are brown, my face is more oval shaped and elongated which in my opinion is much less feminine, I am very skinny with subtle curves, and I have had issues with acne for many years.

How do you think about the answers?

From friends, family and strangers with saying "are you sure they're your sisters?" It's an unfair comparison. Some day the right guy will notice you and like you for more than your looks.

I talk about eating disorders so.....watch out. How to deal with being the "ugly" sister? The advantage is that you can rest more on an Ace of Spades than on the letter A. The "ugly" sister's making cookbooks.

New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, Press J to jump to the feed. I am by no means ugly but it's difficult to compare myself to someone as gorgeous as my older sister. Why do teenagers have adult features like breasts, Facial hair etc ? Maybe she is just more outgoing then you are, maybe more popular? Your gorgeouss :) I've never seen you before, but god doesn't ever make an ugly creature :) What makes you pretty is your confidence level.

They want me to work on eating 3 times a day and a few snacks plus eating fear foods (carbs are mine) before anything. This ease happens because the Ace of Spades and cards in general are more palpable. As a male, it ultimately means a life of solitude... Ilegit randomly found this sub and I think it's silly because nothing really matters in life everything goes on but just saying your very pretty and I definitely find you attractive not even close to ugly so who cares ... Be happy. I am completely honest on this reddit account.

As we got older, and we began to talk about our lives (we fought as teens) she told me she always thought I was naturally beautiful and that she always felt pressured to look good 24/7 so she wouldn't leave the house without trying to look her best. Why can't I get a boyfriend? I'm seeing a therapist after 8 years of having on and off eating disorders so he wants me to focus more on eating meals rather than losing weight ATM. I'm really scared that too much screen time causes nearsightedness!? I can, but first my main priority is recovering from my eating disorders. Either that or asking why I wasn't as pretty as her.

Which I hate because I don't want to resent her or feel inferior to her but it's difficult for me to help it since she has ever physical feature I have ever wished for and every time I'm around her I find myself subconsciously comparing. I'm not obese, my bmi and doctors (and body fat%) just say I'm overweight but that's definitely still bad. Yeah... You're not ugly. Sorry that people make you feel bad for being short, I won't know what it's like for someone to judge you on something as shallow and artificial as height. Be happy and love you face body and who you are on the inside. Thank you.

So I thought. If you feel confident on how you look you will get guys to come to you, for you :) Attitude is all it is, really it is!

But remember it's ultimately not about looks anyways.

You can sign in to vote the answer. Yes, her sister is a model, and about as close to the Western ideal of beauty as a woman can get, but she's a freaking super model.

It’s even worse when you get the short-end of the stick for everything. I played soccer and ran track but still, I was never thin (I have no health issues, my bmi could be fucked due to me being anorexic at 12). So in a way, you're lucky. I have been told I'm beautiful many times and that I should be a model, and some have even said I am more beautiful than my sister, but that is just impossible for me to believe. You have a better chance of developing a successful long-term relationship. I could just be slightly below average I guess, You’re not ugly at all, and how cheap and insensitive does someone has to be to call u fat or ugly. do men these days hate beautiful women? I'm determined and I have a lot of self advocacy. So I thought. It sucks I won't lie, I would do anything to be beautiful/pretty but I'm happy enough I guess.

The only opinion from guys was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion! Looking back I realize how I was perfectly fine but I never thought I was, we went on a trip to Florida and I had on a sweatshirt and sweatpants the whole time because I felt too fat. Your lack of confidence is reflected in just a simple paragraph, can't imagine how much it's reflected in your real life! How do I deal with being the "less attractive" sister? As long as you've accepted it, though I'm sure your sister isn't all that either.

I believe my face is more ethnic-looking , she looks more like the European side of the family while I look more like the Middle Eastern side , which isn't necessarily bad but not very conventionally beautiful. Just gotta play to your strengths, get a haircut that frames your face better, ditch the knee high socks, get clothes that compliment your current figure. She was the hot one and I was just more plain. They're my sisters."

Would you rather save up someone special or get looks, treating you like piece of meat?

Smh. This makes me so sad to read and I feel this pain so deep it’s fucked. I won't say I was ugly, necessarily, but my sister, who is 10 years my senior, was (and still is, in her mid 50s) the beautiful one. If you’re going to monkey around with this approach, start small. Umm, no, you are very cute and not fat.

So I'm coming to terms with the fact that I am the ugly sister, but it's fine. I have under developed facial bone structure and I am short.

Anyway, your "hot" sister might be jealous of you-- because guys are always hitting on her and she can never be sure who really cares about her beyond her looks!! Still have questions? You suffer from very low self esteem. I feel very depressed over my appearance, and I really don't know how to cope? A good way to find him is to be approach able, funny have a great smile/laugh... all guys want to be around fun girls and not around nagging/bitches.

Confidence is part of what makes a person appealing.

wait for someone who likes you for you, not just the outside.

It’s such a horrible feeling.

And no I’m not lying or some kind of sjw.

If guys are not hitting on you, it might be because you're not confident enough for their liking.

I focus on health, not beauty, and she was obsessed with it so she smoked to stay slim and now you can see the effects in her skin and nails and it will just get worse.

Me on the other hand is a different story. My older sister has always been like Barbie, big lips, tiny frame, big eyes, long hair. She is more conventionally beautiful, with a tiny button nose, beautiful big hazel eyes, a small feminine jaw, perfect fair skin and great curves. Hell, it sounds like she's doing what she loves. Perhaps exercise more, tone up, get a makeover, get counseling, or talk to your parents about it. Imagine being part of a famous family where you’re the ugly, less talented, and less successful sibling. No one likes being the ugly sibling in a good-looking family. Are the Democrats in Trouble in this Election time.

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You'll look better and feel better because you will have done it the correct way, which will further reinforce a healthy mentality.

Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. To be direct, you are overweight(not so much tbh), but you are not ugly. She is incredibly insecure with her looks and her body, and she has a hard time believe anyone would find her attractive without makeup.

Wait until you find someone you truly care about it. If you’re telling yourself … I'm still way bigger compared to her little body but she envies my boobs, butt, clear skin and strong legs. You will find a guy sooner or later no doubt and he will only have eyes for you and see you as the so called "pretty sister" and think if her as the not so pretty one! Seriously, yoi being fat is temporary and you can be fit in just some months. Thank you for caring though.

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